July 23, 2018

I have high standards for a person who wants to be trained as one of my submissives.  

As I am sadistic, I require a submissive to need punishment and pain.

Have a deep need to worship their Mistress.

Have a need to serve and provide services as I command.

Be eager to...

September 15, 2017

A Sex-Positive Quest

Will you take up the challenge?

Awaken a sex-positive lifestyle!

We have lived too long in a world that denies sexual freedom.  A world of inequality.  A world of sexual ignorance and superstition.  A cultural bias denying pleasures of the body....

June 16, 2016


Would you like to discover your path in life?  Do you have an interest that you feel impassioned about?  Would you like to find a purpose in life?  If so, then this writing is for you.

In this blog I would like to share how I transformed my life...

March 28, 2016

Body Modification


My radio show on March 26 - 27, 2016 was on Body Modification.  Go to KPFT’s archives and scroll down to AfterHours to listen to the show.  My segment is the middle portion of the show.  In the show we covered a wide range of topics related to body mo...

March 24, 2016

Last night I performed an erotic poetry reading at Kinky Tuesday's at Numbers.  For those who could not attend, I thought I would share them here.  I feel that all three poems speak in one way or another to creating a sex-positive world.  In the first two poems, there...

March 21, 2016

Part of this blog contains excerpts from Esoteric Adventures - A Sacred Harlot's Photo Essay (due to the adult content and nudity, most of the photographs have been removed).


Intersex (Hermaphrodite)


Is it a boy or a girl?  This is usually the first question asked when...

March 15, 2016

Are you into being worshipped as a Dominant?  Is your submissive into worshipping you?


Worship is a deep need for many submissives.  Worship allows a submissive to perform rituals and devotion.  It provides a submissive a feeling of total dedication.  Religions have ta...

March 11, 2016

Pagan Festivals and Aphrodite’s Temple


Raven’s Lair runs Aphrodite’s Temple (a sacred sex temple which includes BDSM play) for two pagan organizations.  The photograph was taken years ago of Aphrodite's Temple at Earth Spirit People.  Since then, the Temple area is sur...

March 4, 2016


Is BDSM right for me?  Have you ever encountered BDSM and felt a curious desire deep within but dismissed it as something you would never explore because BDSM is harmful and damaging.  Or perhaps you felt it was just plain wrong.


When I was first approached to pl...

February 9, 2016