Aphrodite's Temple

Raven's Lair
Houston, Texas
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Sex-Positive Environment

A sex-positive environment is an environment where all forms of sexual expression between consenting
adults are recognized as legitimate forms of human sexuality and are celebrated.  In a sex-positive
environment, sexuality is considered a sacred act.  Many forms of sexual expression are considered a form
of worship.  In a sex-positive environment, each individual is invited to worship within his or her belief
system.  Each individual is seen as a spirit within a body and thus is worshipped as a sacred being.

A sex-positive environment is an environment that is conducive to all forms of human sexual expression as
long as it is safe, sane, and between consenting adults.  In a sex-positive environment, sacred sex, artistic
sexual expression, BDSM, Tantric sex, Taoist sex, spiritual sexuality, and many other forms of sexual /
sensual expression are not only encouraged, but are celebrated.  It can include, but is not limited to
romantic love, self-love, physical sex, spiritual sex, sex magick, fuck buddies, masturbation, sacred sex,
sex play, sex healing, BDSM, creative artistic sexual expression, and explorative sex.

Living in a sex negative society leaves us all deprived of human touch.  It leaves us all in the dark when it
comes to sensual / sexual arts and knowledge.  In a sex-positive environment, education is a key
component.  Sexual educational materials are available.  Sex play in Aphrodite’s Temple includes
educational interactive workshops, artistic performance pieces, sex rituals, group sensual/sexual play, and
sex magick practices.  In the artistic performance pieces, material is presented in an artistic performance
which demonstrates safety and information about how one can work with different forms of human sexual
expression.  The erotic aroused sexual body is viewed as a form of art.  

A sex-positive environment is a judgment free zone.  It is a safe area for adults to explore all aspects of
human sexual expression (within the guidelines of safe, sane, and consensual) without condemnation, put-
downs, or other degrading behaviors.  In a sex-positive environment, creative and experimental
explorations of human sexuality are encouraged.

A sex-positive environment is about developing and nurturing positive attitudes and values around
sexuality and sensuality.  In a sex-positive environment, erotic energy is raised and a circle of protection is
called forth to ensure safety for each individual who enters.

In a sex-positive environment, all genders within the diverse gender spectrum are acknowledged,
accepted, and celebrated.  All genders are equal.  Typical misogynistic gender roles and stereotypes and
the behaviors associated with them, are discouraged (except within the context of role-play for healing
purposes).  Gender bending, playing with gender role reversals, and exploring gender equality is
encouraged.

In a sex-positive environment, all sexual orientations are acknowledged, accepted, and celebrated.  
Heterosexual, bisexual, homosexual, asexual, and explorations of sexual orientation are legitimate and
recognized.  Typical misogynistic attitudes about sexual orientation are discouraged (except within the
context of role-play for healing purposes).  Exploring one’s own sexual orientation, playing with sexual
orientation roles, and discovering new experiences in sex play is encouraged.

We live in the land of freedom.  Yet, are we truly free when it comes to human sexual expression.  Creating
sex-positive environments provides each human being freedom of sexual expression.  Breaking sexual
taboos and exploring ecstasy in a sex-positive environment allows each individual to tap into a higher
consciousness and develop the primal sexual being within.  In a sense, human sexuality is the final
frontier.  Dare to go where no one has gone before.

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We live in the land of freedom.
 Yet, are we truly free when it
comes to human sexual
expression?